Bebo questions: 2009 VS 2016

We all remember those questionnaires literally all the cool kids used to fill out on bebo. 
You know, the ones asking 'deep' questions about your life. The ones that basically revolved around your crush and your bffl. Well, I found one. I found a few actually, on my 'notes' section on facebook cause lol apparently when everyone deserted bebo, we kept the mindset that people cared about your answers and it made you all hip and cool. So I'm going to show you one I found from 2009 and then fill the same one out and see if there's much difference 

I bloody hope there is because I was a lame-ass emo kid in 2009 lol.

2009 me:

1. What is more difficult: looking into someones eyes when telling how you feel, or looking into someones eyes when they tell you how they feel? 

How you feel 

2. Think of the last time you were angry. Why were you angry?

Uhmm can't remember tbh. 

3. You will die in three minutes. Last call?

Shona

4. If you could do anything OR wish anything, what would it be?

Dunno, just to be happy i guess

5. You can have one of the following two things: trust or love?

no love without trust so trust. 

6. You are walking to work. There is a dog drowning in the canal on the side of the street. Your boss told you if you are late one more time you're fired. Do you save the dog?

Too rightt 

7. Would you or have you ever blackmailed someone? 

I have done, but only my brother 

8. Think of the last person who you know that died. You have the chance to give them 1 hour of life back, but you have to give one year of your life. Do you do it? 

Yes

9. Are you the kind of friend that you would want to have as a friend? 

Yeah ahaha 

10. Does sex=love? 

No

11. What would be harder for you, to tell someone you love them or that you do not love them back? 

not love them back 

12. Romantic love, when was the last time you told someone you loved them? 

Uhmm 2 months ago ish 

13. If you had to go back in time and change one thing, if you HAD to, even if you have "no regrets" what would you change? 

I wouldnt cheat on rhys 

14. Would you give a homeless person CPR if they were dying? 

Yeah 

15. You are holding onto your grandmother's dying hand and the hand of a newborn that you do not know as they hang over the edge of a cliff. You have to let one go to save the other which one would it be? 

See ya' later gran 

2016 me:

1. What is more difficult: looking into someone's eyes when telling how you feel, or looking into someone's eyes when they tell you how they feel? 

How you feel cause I'd probably be crying lol

2. Think of the last time you were angry. Why were you angry? 

Uh Nala kept jumping on the bed when I was trying to change the sheets

3. You will die in three minutes. Last call? 

Nan and Bamps

4. If you could do anything OR wish anything, what would it be? 

Be brave enough to live life exactly how I want to

5. You can have one of the following two things: trust or love? 

Trust. You can't have love without trust. 2009 me was right!

6. You are walking to work. There is a dog drowning in the canal on the side of the street. Your boss told you if you are late one more time you're fired. Do you save the dog? 

Yaaaaas. I'm self-employed anyway but if I wasn't my boss can go fuck themselves

7. Would you or have you ever blackmailed someone? 

I've blackmailed my brother but I wouldn't blackmail anyone again.

8. Think of the last person who you know that died. You have the chance to give them 1 hour of life back, but you have to give one year of your life. Do you do it? 

No.

9. Are you the kind of friend that you would want to have as a friend? 

Yeah, I'm amazing.

10. Does sex=love? 

No sir

11. What would be harder for you, to tell someone you love them or that you do not love them back? 

Not love them back, can't be dealing with breaking people's hearts lol

12. Romantic love, when was the last time you told someone you loved them? 

Earlier?

13. If you had to go back in time and change one thing, if you HAD to, even if you have "no regrets" what would you change? 

If I had to, it would probably still be that I wouldn't cheat on Rhys because it's made me insecure and paranoid in relationships now.

14. Would you give a homeless person CPR if they were dying? 

Yeah, they're people too so obviously I would try to save someone's life?

15. You are holding onto your grandmother's dying hand and the hand of a newborn that you do not know as they hang over the edge of a cliff. You have to let one go to save the other which one would it be? 

If it just said holding onto your grandmother's hand, I'd let go of the newborn but because it says 'dying grandmothers hand' I'd have to kick her off the cliff cause she gon' die anyway so I may as well save the baba

These weren't as 'deep' as I hoped they would be, I have tonnes of notes on my facebook so I might make this a weekly thing until I run out. I think it's always good to reflect on who you were and how far you've come. It gives you perspective and reminds you that whatever you're going through right now, you're gunna get through it and you may even laugh at your silliness after a few years. I'm glad to see that I've always been compassionate, though.

If you could do/be anything, what would it be?

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